Wash and wipe the ladies finger. Note that bhindi should be wiped fully dry, else they would turn sticky. Chop them into small pieces.
Heat a pan/kadai and add 1-2 tsp oil . Add all the ingredients mentioned under " masala to roast " one by one
On medium flame , saute them golden and crisp . Keep them aside
To the same pan ,add oil . Add garlic ,if you want . Add chopped bhindi and few curry leaves . Saute 2-3 mins .
Add lemon sized tamarind , tomato chopped and few coriander leaves .
Saute till bhindi s loose their sliminess and are soft . Allow to cool .
To the mixer add all the roasted cooled masala ingredients . Pulse to make a smooth powder .
To the masala powder , add the roasted bhindi and salt . Grind without adding water . Take care not to make super fine paste.
Lastly prepare a tempering . To a pan add any oil you like . Splutter mustard . Later add little hing and curry leaves . Can add a broken red chilli too .
Now add grounded chutney to this . Saute 2-3 mins.
Serve Bhindi chutney with hot rice . Drizzle little ghee while mixing. Will enhance the taste.