Soak cashews in warm water for 15 to 20 minutes. Later grind cashews with little milk to a smooth creamy paste, set aside.
Heat oil in a heavy bottomed pan. Add fenugreek leaves with little salt and cook till the raw smell evaporates.
To the same heavy bottomed pan, add 1 teaspoon of oil and add sliced onion, ginger, garlic and green chillies. Saute till raw smell goes. Add diced tomatoes and salt. Saute till tomatoes are mushy.
Once onion tomato mix has cooled, grind it very smooth along with soaked cashews. Our masala for methi malai paneer is ready.
Proceed to make the gravy
Add remaining oil in a heavy bottomed pan. Add bay leaf, cumin seeds and let it splutter .
Add ground onion tomato paste and saute well for about 4-5 mins or till raw smell goes and color changes.
Add turmeric powder, red chilli powder, coriander powder, kasuri methi , sauteed methi leaves and salt. Saute well.
Add milk and required water to get the desired consistency. Mix everything well and keep it covered. Stir in between.
Add diced paneer simmer and boil for 2- 3 mins .
When the curry is boiling well, add malai and garam masala powder and let it cook for another 1 minute. Mix everything and switch off.
Serve Methi Malai Paneer along with Roti / Chapathi / Naan
Notes
After adding cream don't boil much . They will curdle .
Cashew paste is very important here as they give a nice texture . you can add few almonds too .
If you want you can increase Fresh cream ( Malai ) quantity .